Why Do Assh*les Make Money?

Here’s something I’ve really been wrestling with:

Why are there so many people (I know you can think of a few!) who are self-centered, greedy, inconsiderate, not on a healing journey, and still out in the world making big bucks WHILE-

So many people who are extremely generous, self aware, on a healing path, and trying to align with their highest selves, are struggling to see financial gains?!

There’s an array of reasons, but what I’ve come up with is this:

1. Money doesn’t care about your mood or your ‘tude.

2. We know better, so we’re choosing to build our wealth differently.

You absolutely don’t need to understand your inner child or be high vibe all the time to make money. But, if you’re like my clients and I, we’re not after just money.

We want a better world, and that starts with bettering yourself.

Healing yourself. Honoring yourself. And trying to be the best human you can be.

And as you’re going about working on your best self, you can be making good money- rest assured you will NOT turn into someone completely different (aka greedy asshole) because you’re constantly working on yourself along the way.

What I’ve learned is if you’re trying to be perfect in order to receive, you’re never going to be where you want to be.

To get clear on what you want & why and then take consistent action, working through mindset blocks at the same time, is the fastest way to bring you & money into harmony.

In my 3 Pillars of Wealth Mindset, the first pillar is:

Money doesn’t buy happiness, pursue both.

And it’s so true, we have to choose to actively pursue our happiness, our health, our version of well-being alongside building our businesses and bringing in the money. But it is a CHOICE.

Journal Prompt:

Incase your subconscious is going, “Well wealthy= greedy/bad/unlikeable” so you stay far away from that… It’s time to redefine wealthy and specifically get clear on YOUR version of what wealthy looks like, acts like, impacts like.

Let me know what you find!

If you’re ready for in depth support around your own money story, crafting your ideal offers & charging like a kind AND profitable boss- let’s connect and discuss if wealth coaching is the best fit for you!

Wealth Expansion Client Study: Trust is Everything!

Today I want to share a quick, inspiring case study of one of my clients who did wealth expansion coaching with me!

Tell me if you can relate:

When Client C came to work with me for her 1 woman beauty business she said needed help with:
-Time management & not feeling like everything was so crazy urgent
-Adjusting her website & service prices
-Having a real lunch break & reasonable work hours
-Having clients respect her time & not being stood up


When we began working together she was already having $12k+ months, but was starting to run ragged, and finding she was missing her downtime/own self care time while trying to balance her ambitious ideas list.


Working together with my wealth expansion framework {addressing true desires, mindset, body, energy, money & growth strategy} here's what happened:

#1 We found that it wasn't just a time management issue, she really wanted to bring on an employee to take over some clients & work hours, but she was harboring a major trust issue.

-> We worked through the root of the trust issue which was keeping her doing everything herself and feeling like an overwhelmed entrepreneur!
-> She hired an amazing employee who fit her standards, could be trained to create a seamless service experience, and she was able to easily scale while taking days off!


#2 We identified the branding style & powerful, upbeat presence she wanted to move her website into and how to create consistent content with the topics that would make her the expert of her industry.

-> We also realized she wanted to create some way more magical services that combined energy work & beauty services.
-> We mapped out the services, worked through the money mindset of charging hundreds of dollars for her premium treatments and she's been selling them ever since!


#3 We also made a feel-good daily schedule so she could eat lunch in peace, recharge & have policies for no shows.

-> Taking an hour for lunch was a dream she had that came true when we set boundaries in her schedule and honored her body's need for quiet in between hours of standing & talking with clients.

-> Then we instituted fee policies for any clients who didn't show last minute, eliminating the stress of missed money as well as people who weren't truly valuing her time!

Imagine if you could do the same for your business?!

I know the beautiful results Client C had are possible for you too. Let's not wait any longer to see them become your reality, yeah?!

Book a connection call and let’s see if 1:1 or group coaching would benefit you!

Wealth Expansion Client Study: Let the Future Dictate the Future

Have you ever felt like past failures were haunting your business decisions?
Or had the fear of taking the leap to change directions?

What if we didn't let the past dictate your future?

We're diving into another client wealth study today!
And I'm going to guess a lot of you can relate to this client's experience & mindset when she showed up for support.

Let's get into it!

When Client A came to work with me for her web design & branding biz she was feeling like:

-> Her past failures and fear of potential failure were keeping her trapped playing smaller than she really wanted
-> Doubting herself and letting clients walk all over her
-> Her biz wasn't truly aligned with where she wanted to go and the powerhouse she knew she could be



When we began working together her big vision included:
->Building platforms with proprietary IPs as well as apps
-> Signing 6 figure contracts with mission driven brands
-> Creating a business that would allow her to support her wife & growing family


Working together with my wealth expansion framework {addressing true desires, mindset, body, energy, money & growth strategy} here's what happened:

#1 We birthed her a new business name & brand (she designed it of course!) that operates as a boutique agency, with a killer team of creatives & data geeks who can support the kinds of big projects she wanted to take on.

-> Her old biz felt like it misrepresented the work she was truly doing, and was full of old energetic baggage from bad experiences so we ditched it!
-> She let go of perfectionist tendencies and rebranded over a few weeks, sharing the process with her audience & letting clients know about the exciting changes.



#2 She started getting inquiries from big mission driven brands, signed a 6 figure contract and began multiple new platform projects for clients she wanted to serve & give her full range of services to.

-> We did lots of mindset & energy work on having her trust herself to handle these next-level clients and the new challenges that will arise.
-> We worked on her team communication and management style, while she brought on a diverse & skilled team to delegate to.


#3 In addition to watching her business grow so she can support her family the way she desires, we made sure she was taking time to recharge and have fun so she was also an enjoyable partner not just a workaholic!

-> Her go-to release is golf, so even through the New England fall & winter she was getting out to have that solo time & energy reset. As well as dance party breaks to shake it out!

-> She also booked some special nights out for her & wifey for fun and romance. And a full on vacation is on the books once they feel safe for plane travel!

Are you inspired yet?!

I am! My clients are rockstars, but they're also real people with real challenges, life circumstances and the motivation to do better for themselves & their families.


If you're looking for results like these and a place where you can show up and be supported with whatever areas of life & business you're looking to expand and upgrade then this next parts for you!

Book a free connection call to discuss what 1:1 or group coaching program would be perfect for you & your dreams.

The Pleasure of Stretching

Have you ever felt the pleasure of stretching your body, where there’s discomfort, but it feels so good to have all inches of you expand just beyond your usual state?

I’m on my yoga mat, my husband breathing next to me, leaning over one leg & raising one arm in the air.

I feel my skin stretch over my ribs. I feel the muscles in my calf call out. My bicep is working hard just to stay hanging overhead.

And it’s so pleasurable I almost want to cry.

I do yoga regularly, but after a bad neck injury last month I’d been moving and stretching much less, for fear of irritating my neck.

But now as I notice my stiffness, doing moves I’ve done hundreds of times, I am finding deep pleasure in the stretch.

I feel grounded, not in a rush, enjoying the little shifts in each pose. Comforted and amazed by the way my breath enables me to persevere. Keep stretching. Expand.

And- it feels like the perfect metaphor for where I’m at with my business.

I’m still doing things I’ve done before, so many times: Creating, sharing offers, talking to my audience, posting on social media, and selling coaching programs.

But there is a deep pleasure in how I’m stretching and expanding this time.

I feel so OF myself, IN my body, content to move slowly with compassion and without fear of hurting myself.

I’m not on fire to go as fast as possible. I’m deeply trusting that I know how to do these moves, and I’m more confident than ever doing them, even though I can feel the stretch.

The stretch in my business comes from charging the highest prices I’ve ever charged.

Boldly creating a simple yet challenging program that will deeply change my clients’ & my own way of being and working.

And for once, believing fully (even with whispers of “What if…"“) that it is going to work out for me the way I not only planned, but deserve & need to grow.

I am absolutely giddy with this kind of discomfort.

I am basking in the expansion.

I’m enjoying every minute stretching of myself, knowing it’s what I’ve chosen for myself.