Why do we get stuck?

People love talking about how they’re stuck. It’s always a topic in coaching circles, entrepreneur groups, artist conversations… stuck, stuck, stuck!

I love when people show up to me feeling stuck. Because I know the answer.

Desire.

Stuck? Show me your desires. Tell me which you’re honoring, which you’re acting upon, which you’re ignoring, and which you’re crushing down into dust.

Tell me which desires you’ve deemed yourself not worthy of, not deserving of, something that’s in your heart but you’ve decided simply isn’t meant for you.

Tell me where you came from. Tell me where you want to go. Tell me your desires and I’ll tell you why you’re stuck in the translation of becoming.

When I ask women what they really want the solution is clear. They just have come up with a hundred road blocks, in their mind, of why they can’t have it. When we dig in beneath the surface of “I don’t knows” and let the fear slide away, the shame dissipate, when they’re able to boldly state their desires - they’re instantly set back into motion.

When the desire is honored, the soul is set into motion, the steps start to reveal themselves and that internal drive gets reignited.